Sunday, January 31, 2010

Bridal Shower Money Tree So How Does The Money Tree Work For A Bridal Shower?

So how does the money tree work for a bridal shower? - bridal shower money tree

I was surprised when I apply an invitation to get money. I've never heard of the tree of the money was option.I Google it. duh! but of course I am committed as my daughter, my brothers, after all!

12 comments:

Coffee Junky said...

Disturbed by what? A family member who want money instead of gifts? What exactly is so difficult about it?

I've never been a fan of the "Silly rules" and "wedding for the label, and showering. It's ridiculous! If we can be comfortable with things as we will with family and friends is not something is wrong.

We have a money tree for my sister, and all (even the ladies little old school) they loved. My mother has a nice small tree in the woods around our property. Then painted black. We had these clips coming soon, and who has made his gift, was able to clip right to arms.

It is a gift practicle! It is logical, and it is very common today. There are over 1900!

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If you make a donation in spite of what they are trying to do (someone) suggested, then it would be impolite. My marriage was in July and my husband and I have two kids and a house together. In addition to ors marriage is half of the entire country, and simply can not carry a lot of gifts with us. In our invitations (.. ohhhh. shocking!) Spoke of a "gift idea (image) of an envelope: Presentation estimated that the box is already full." All easy, simple, not great, and we know that's what I want, but not necessary. Although we already have a house, my maid of honor raises a wedding shower with us! It is one of our best friends ... Why not me?

CorpCity... said...

I'm going to sound harsh, but here goes ....

Personally, I find it mildly for couples who are already expecting a house or what not accept gifts that have created a shower. I also find it rude and in bad taste for a couple of "demanding" that the money they should be given. A wedding is a celebration, not an event to earn money, but I still think it's normal to be so, because that is what that day arrives.

I think that is total BS. If you live outside the state, then fine do not register - and help the customer decide what to do and to give a rule like a gift card or money because they are nice and practical, but almost obligatory for guests to deal with checks in hand or money coming into his hand, a little more reach.

sciencec... said...

I heard it, and I agree, very bad taste.

Force you not to buy a present as usual and ignore the request. If you have any doubts, dumb and say, "Now I have a gift." It is not rude at all.

If you mean a little, you give him a book of etiquette.

Add: Whether it is 2009, which still etiqutte disadvantages. I'm not referring to the tradition, it's nothing. Ia m talking about rules, be polite, not simply be ignored.

The shower is open on the gifts if you ask for money only not get a shower. For the wedding, you need not register, and quitely mouth when you asked Coupld say that they prefer cash donations.

alison said...

Forever & For Always ... Any request for money or shower for a wedding, birthday or just ol 'day ends in Y, is coarse and vulgar. You can never ask for money.

I am also totally dedicated to the integration of information from the registry on the invitation to meet. Although it is for the guests with gifts, not necessarily traditional, and as open as to submit your request in the invitation ... ugh! It is my flesh crawl.

So, back to basics to answer - to your question, if you like all the MoneyTree is tough like this, take a page from the book by my grandmother. She is giving the Queen, receipts for donations. "I've won $ 50.00 for the company of breast cancer in her name." You have a gift he gave money - and you have a point.

NCIS ♥ Addict said...

♥ Wow ... I am surprised by the harsh reactions. This is 2009 ... This is no longer taboo to ask for money as a wedding gift. Some couples can live together and have almost nothing that can help pay for their honeymoon there as a present, others may not really need the money to help cover competitive marriage or live. I

♥ A money tree is a kind of stand structure (in general) that has some clips for hanging cards, cash donations, some couples simply use the panel so that its safe and secure. If you are uncomfortable giving a cash donation, perhaps, Split The Difference, you give them a card with a small sum of money, and then a small gift?

Good luck!

EDIT: Why is it so taboo and impolite to ask donations for a wedding, but for birthdays, Christmas, etc., we can ask for donations? It is impolite to say hey, we prefer cash. Of course, this does not mean all work, but not coarse or vulgar. The technique, which I think it is rude to include weddingBlender EGISTRY asking $ 200, $ 300 of pots and pans, etc. and share loan,. With the money people can give as much or as little as they can afford it and do not feel obligated to come up with money, off the record a little too expensive to buy. And this is another issue .... because it is a gift ... Donation is requested, the same as sending a registration document in the envelope of the wedding. Anyway take your suggestion and not something, as someone said, if the customer decides whether to adopt the proposal of couples to donate trees for money to buy gifts or something to take away.

mydarlyn... said...

I would like to bring a gift, because I think it's the epitome of bad manners. How dare you say that a certain person.

2009 or not is still a taboo that somebody give something "to say". It is a gift that is optional for the top, if desired, you can make suggestions or say that (we do not do anything and let them decide whether to give money), but the person as a spokesperson to give something ( money, toaster, education, etc.) is hard and angry is a taboo in a year ...

And treats the person, the Salt Lake, said a gift if the money is being requested is not rudeness, I agree. It's never rude to bring a gift, because it is a gift. It would be rude, with nothing in my head donations appear) (in cash or materials are not optional, required. The gift of your presence is enough ...

michka said...

Money trees are very common, and a wonderful idea. No need to be shocked by it.

As has been said, has every kind of tree or structure, where you can attach your gift of money. No big deal, it is not surprising. People are offended by something so simple.

Relax.

Mrs.G said...

EW. Really? Wow.Tacky much? I am 100% against the trees of silver, the dollar dance (unless you leave your culture), and honeymoon registry. Blah!

A tree is a tree of counterfeit or real (depending on what you decide) to basically put some money on the bride and groom. It is usually done with clothespins or a string. Very very controversial and it is simply silly.

If I were you, I would like to purchase a gift. Not skimp on the gift, but buy something tangible rather than to solicit money is just rude!

fizzy stuff said...

Shocking and frightening. The showers are open to the gifts. If the bride has everything, then you should not shower himself.

Im sorry, but if I were you, this application does not require bold. It is the height of rudeness.

Davidica said...

EW. To ask for money is tacky, no matter how "nice" fool for a money tree. This is probably a kind of tree with staples or clips on what you can to insure your donation.

I feel dirty writing this.

Spindrif... said...

I think the demand for money to have in terribly bad taste, no matter who he is, I never, or sending money. It is a gift or something.

Michael said...

I think it is more often with partners who live together and do not need gifts to take home. I agree it is a little bit angry, but x

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